Adult Therapy

Ages 18+

Starting therapy can feel intimidating, especially when opening up about personal struggles. It’s normal to feel nervous or unsure at first. However, building rapport with your therapist is key. A strong, trusting relationship allows you to feel safe, supported, and understood, helping you explore difficult emotions at your own pace. Over time, as trust develops, therapy becomes a space where you can work through challenges without fear of judgment, making the process more comfortable and effective.

“The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.” -Carl Rogers

Issues that I Commonly Treat in Adults

Trauma/PTSD

Trauma in adults refers to a deeply distressing experience, such as physical or emotional abuse, accidents, violence, or the loss of a loved one, that can significantly affect a person’s mental and emotional well-being. PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder) can develop when someone is unable to fully process or heal from the trauma, leading to symptoms like flashbacks, nightmares, intense anxiety, emotional numbness, and difficulty functioning in daily life.

In therapy, adults with trauma or PTSD work to process their painful memories, gain understanding of their emotional responses, and develop coping strategies. Through approaches like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), or trauma-focused therapies, individuals can reframe their experiences, reduce the emotional impact of the trauma, and work toward healing and reclaiming a sense of safety and control in their lives. Therapy helps adults build resilience, manage symptoms, and regain emotional stability.

Personality Disorders

A personality disorder is a mental health condition characterized by persistent patterns of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that are significantly different from what is expected in the individual’s culture. These patterns often cause distress or problems in relationships, work, and other areas of life. There are several types of personality disorders, such as Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD), and Avoidant Personality Disorder, among others. Individuals with these disorders may struggle with issues like emotional instability, impulsivity, difficulty with relationships, or rigid thinking.

The most effective form of treatment is often psychotherapy. Some common therapeutic approaches include:

  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): Particularly useful for individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder, DBT focuses on helping people manage intense emotions, improve relationships, and reduce self-destructive behaviors.
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): This approach helps individuals identify and change harmful thought patterns and behaviors.
  • Schema Therapy: Aimed at addressing deeply ingrained patterns of thinking and behaving that form early in life, often a focus for individuals with disorders like Avoidant or Narcissistic personality disorders.
  • Group Therapy: Individuals with personality disorders and their families may benefit from psychoeducation or group therapy, which can help improve understanding of the disorder, strengthen coping strategies, and build healthier relationships.

    Treatment often takes time and requires a long-term commitment to therapy, but with the right support, people with personality disorders can improve their functioning and quality of life.

    Life Changes/Divorce/Relationships

    Therapy can be highly beneficial for navigating life changes like divorce and relationship issues, providing a supportive space to process emotions, understand dynamics, and find healthy coping strategies.

    • Divorce: Going through a divorce can bring up feelings of grief, anger, guilt, and confusion. Therapy helps individuals manage these intense emotions, heal from the loss of the relationship, and work on rebuilding their identity and self-esteem. It can also provide guidance on co-parenting, setting boundaries, and managing the stress of family changes, especially when children are involved.
    • Relationship Issues: Therapy helps couples or individuals address communication problems, trust issues, and conflicts by exploring underlying causes. It focuses on improving communication, resolving conflicts, rebuilding trust, and enhancing intimacy. For individuals, therapy can also address behavior patterns, such as attachment issues or fear of intimacy, that impact relationships.

      In both cases, therapy offers a space to understand emotions, develop coping tools, and move forward with greater emotional resilience and healthier relationship patterns.

      Co-Parenting

      Therapy can be a valuable resource for co-parenting, especially when parents are navigating a separation or divorce. It provides a neutral space to improve communication, resolve conflicts, and focus on the best interests of the children.

      • Improved Communication: Therapy helps co-parents develop healthier, more respectful ways to communicate, especially when emotions are high. It encourages active listening and non-confrontational discussions to ensure both parents’ perspectives are heard and understood.
      • Conflict Resolution: Co-parenting often involves disagreements about parenting styles, schedules, or discipline. Therapy helps parents learn how to resolve conflicts constructively without escalating tensions, fostering a cooperative environment for the children.
      • Focus on Children’s Needs: Therapy can guide co-parents in prioritizing their children’s emotional and practical needs, ensuring consistency between households. It helps parents align on important issues like schooling, discipline, and emotional support, providing a stable and unified approach for the kids.
      • Setting Boundaries: Therapy helps establish healthy boundaries between co-parents, which can prevent over-involvement or resentment. This leads to more functional and respectful co-parenting relationships.

        Ultimately, therapy supports both parents in navigating the challenges of co-parenting, reducing stress, and creating a more positive and collaborative environment for their children.

        Mood Disorders

        Therapy can be highly effective in managing mood disorders like depression, bipolar disorder, and cyclothymia by helping individuals understand their emotions, develop coping strategies, and address the underlying causes of mood swings.

        • Understanding Emotional Patterns: Therapy helps individuals identify and understand the patterns in their mood, thoughts, and behaviors. This awareness can provide insight into triggers or situations that worsen mood swings, enabling better self-regulation.
        • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): One of the most effective therapies for mood disorders, CBT helps people challenge negative thought patterns that contribute to depression or anxiety. It focuses on changing distorted thinking and developing healthier ways of reacting to emotional stress.
        • Emotion Regulation: For those with bipolar disorder or other mood disorders, therapy can help with learning to regulate intense emotions, manage stress, and develop healthier coping mechanisms for both high and low moods.
        • Coping Skills: Therapy teaches practical tools like mindfulness, relaxation techniques, or problem-solving skills to manage symptoms and maintain emotional stability. It also helps individuals create a more balanced routine, which can improve mood and energy levels.
        • Support and Insight: Therapy provides emotional support and a safe space for individuals to express their feelings without judgment. It also helps people develop a deeper understanding of their condition and how to navigate relationships and daily life with a mood disorder.

          With therapy, individuals can gain better control over their moods, improve their mental health, and learn to live more fulfilling lives despite the challenges of mood disorders.